Are you the type of person who almost has a heart attack right before a public speaking stint? Public speaking can be very challenging, but it is not something that you should fear. But if you have the same feelings of fear towards public speaking, do not fret because there are a lot of other people just like you. 

Public speaking is not something that you are born with, or something that you just have a natural talent at. True, there may be some who are a natural when it comes to public speaking, but this particular skill can be learned and practiced if you are fully committed to it. First, you just really need to overcome that fear of public speaking in order to get it right. Do not let your fear get the best of you and try not to think too much about the number of people in front of you. 

To get over their fears of public speaking, some would even hire a motivational coach or a speech coach to give them a little boost. This is certainly a good idea if you need professional help and if you want to learn from the most experienced people. However, you too can become your own motivational coach if you are just willing to learn the basics of public speaking. Try to read more materials about public speaking and observe how the others do it. 

Before anything else, you need to be fully prepared before you even think about speaking in public. You have to know the entire topic or material that you will be talking about in order to have a successful run. Do not simply memorize words from a sheet of paper. You have to know the whole material inside and out because there might be questions from the audience later on. If you need to memorize a particular material, make sure to divide it in different portions. This is a lot easier than memorizing the material as one big chunk. 

Rehearsing in front of the mirror also helps a lot, especially for those who are not really used to speaking in front of other people. Rehearsing can also take away the jitters, and will help you identify your problem areas. 

Do not worry too much about the number of people in front of you. Instead, just try to relax before you actually go on stage. True, public speaking may be a nerve wracking experience, but you just really need to relax in order to make the nervousness disappear. Do not keep on obsessing over and over your material, especially if you come fully prepared. You can even do something else before you go on stage just to ease the jitters. Also, make sure that you get plenty of rest the night before your big performance. Having too little sleep can make it more difficult for you to remember everything that you need to say. So always make sure to relax and get lots of rest to keep a clear and calm mind in time for your speaking engagement.



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